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There is a thing people do when they walk into a gym for the first time. It takes about two seconds. Eyes sweep the room, checking who is here, what they look like, whether anyone has clocked you yet. Most people do not even know they are doing it.
If you are queer, trans, or nonbinary, you have probably done a longer version of that sweep. You have run the calculation about locker rooms. You have wondered whether the front desk is going to use the name on your credit card. You have decided, more than once, that the whole thing is not worth the risk, and you have gone home and told yourself you would figure out fitness some other way.
We would like to make that calculation easier. Not by telling you we are welcoming, because every gym in America says that. By telling you specifically what we do.
Here is the problem with the phrase. It costs nothing to say. It appears on the website of gyms where the staff have never once thought about what welcome would require of them, and it appears on ours. You cannot tell the difference from the outside, which is exactly why you keep doing the sweep.
So the useful question is not whether a gym says it welcomes you. It is what the gym has actually changed about how it operates.
Our founder, Jodi Butler, has put it plainly: "We celebrate everyone. Whether you're gay, straight, non-binary, trans, queer, ace, whoever you are." That is the value. What follows is the practice.
Not the one on your ID. Not the one in the payment system. The one you tell us. It goes in your file, it goes on the whiteboard, and it is what your coach calls you in front of the room. If we get your pronouns wrong, we correct it and move on, because a long apology makes the moment about our discomfort instead of yours.
This sounds small. It is the single thing people mention most often when they tell us why they stayed.
Every session here is coached. That is not a marketing line, it is the operating model, and it matters more for this than it might seem.
A coach who is watching you is a coach who can adjust. If a movement does not feel good in your body, for any reason at all, the answer is a different movement, not a lecture. If you are on hormone therapy and your recovery is behaving differently than it used to, that is programming information, not a conversation you have to justify. If you had top surgery eight weeks ago, your coach should be building your return to overhead pressing around that, and you should not have to be the one who brings it up first.
You are never obligated to explain any of this to us. Bring what you want to bring. But if you do bring it, it changes the training, which is the whole point of paying a human being to watch you lift.
Most of our members train in personal training or semi-private sessions, which means a handful of people and a coach who knows all of them. Group fitness exists and it is a great door to walk through, but it is a door, not the destination.
The practical effect is that there is no anonymous crowd here. Nobody is on a machine in a corner being quietly evaluated by thirty strangers. Everyone is doing something slightly different from everyone else, under supervision, which makes difference the normal condition of the room rather than a thing that stands out.
We hang the Pride flag. It is up in June and it is up in February, because a flag that only appears when it is commercially convenient is decoration, not a position.
[CONFIRM: our changing room setup, whether we have single-stall or gendered facilities, so we can state it plainly here. This is the most common practical question trans and nonbinary readers have and a vague answer is worse than no answer.]
Every June we host a free Pride community workout at 210 Thomas Street. Three sessions, at 8, 9, and 10 AM. Beginner friendly on purpose, meaning if you have never picked up a barbell you will be fine and nobody will make you feel otherwise. Members come, people who have never been here come, allies come, and a good number of us go to brunch afterward.
It is free because the point is not to sell you anything. The point is to give you a low-stakes way to stand in the room and see how it feels before you commit to anything. If you come once a year for the next decade and never buy a thing, that is a completely acceptable outcome to us.
Two honest things.
First, we are a premium coaching facility, and we are not the cheapest option in the East End. What you are paying for is a coach who knows your history and your goals and adjusts the plan when your life changes. Some people want that and some people do not, and both are reasonable.
Second, being affirming does not make us perfect. We are people. Somebody here will eventually say something clumsy. What we can promise is that it gets addressed rather than smoothed over, and that you will not be the one who has to manage it.
The reason we write any of this down is that you should not have to gamble a month of dues to find out whether a gym meant it. Read what we do, come to a free workout in June, book an intro when you want to, or just know we are here and come back to it in two years.
You are allowed to take up space in a gym. We would like ours to be one where that stops being a question you have to ask.